As a mom of girls ages 4,6, and 8 I am faced with the ultimate experience of having a toddler and two small children. I often here the three of them laughing, playing, and even disagreeing in the same conversation. Their bond is unique and certainly what I prayed for. I am teaching them that its okay to respectfully disagree and to voice their opinion and desires as they feel. As a mom its important for me to show them by leading as an example in our home when it comes to voicing frustrations and concerns. They are always watching; their eyes and ears make me better if you know what I mean.
This year I want to encourage all moms to be optimistic about your motherhood journey; its never what we paint it to be in our heads before the children arrive earthside. Once they are born we are in for a ride.
Moms have to take care of themselves everyday, just as we care for our kids everyday. You’ve heard the saying “you cant pour from an empty cup”, so I am committed to having me time before the family wakes. I plan to fill my cup up daily so I can intentionally pour into my family without feeling drained. On days that I have self -care to start time my day I honestly can tell a difference in my attitude and mood. The smallest actions do not bother me as much and I am in an overall better mood. Give this a try and let me know how it works for you. Self care is vital for mothers. We all desire to get the most JOY out of motherhood. In my next post Ill be sharing a step by step of what my self care looks like. TAKE CARE MAMA.
Until next time…
XO,
Pernilla Turner